Resources

Recommended resources

The books, websites, articles, and events that come up again and again at our gatherings. We keep this list short on purpose: everything here is something we've actually read, used, and would hand to a neighbor.

Evidence-informed

We favor work grounded in research, and we say so when something is one perspective among several rather than settled science.

Practical for real families

Ideas a busy household can actually use, without assuming any particular family circumstance, schedule, or budget.

Judgment-free

Nothing on this list shames families for the choices they've already made. We're all figuring this out as we go.

Websites & organizations

Groups doing wonderful work in this space. Rather than repeat what they do well, we point families their way.

Nonprofit · Children and families

Campaigns, research, and the Screen Time Action Network, working to free childhood from Big Tech's harms.

Massachusetts-based coalition

Model legislation and weekly advocacy calls on phones, social media, and school technology.

National coalition

Evidence-based classroom-tech advocacy, with a deep resource library.

Parent network

Helps families delay smartphones and organize locally, with a parent-group locator.

Nonprofit

The nonprofit behind The Social Dilemma, on how persuasive design competes for our attention.

Educator resources

Digital-wellness tools for educators, including the EdTech Triangle for deciding when classroom tech helps.

School toolkit

Free tools to help middle schools keep phones away during the school day.

Parent and admin resources

Resources and a national community for families pursuing phone-free school days.

Opt-out campaign

A campaign for a clear opt-out from 1:1 school-issued devices, with supporting research.

Researcher

The research hub of the psychologist whose work shapes much of this field.

Talks and education

Max Stossel's organization: talks and guidance for schools and families on social media.

Books

Longer reads for when you want the full picture, from child development to how persuasive design works.

10 Rules for Raising Kids in a High-Tech World
Jean M. Twenge · 2025

Ten practical, evidence-grounded family rules, from delaying social media to phone-free bedrooms and dinners.

The Amazing Generation
Jonathan Haidt with Catherine Price · 2026

A companion handbook for tweens themselves, turning the research into encouraging, practical guidance.

The Anxious Generation
Jonathan Haidt · 2024

The book that brought this conversation mainstream: a play-based childhood giving way to a phone-based one. (Causal strength debated.)

The Digital Delusion
Jared Cooney Horvath · 2026

A neuroscientist on why classroom tech so often undermines learning, with practical steps for families and schools.

Dopamine Kids
Michaeleen Doucleff · 2026

From the author of Hunt, Gather, Parent: a five-step approach to easing screens' pull on kids' attention and mood.

Dopamine Nation
Anna Lembke · 2021

A Stanford psychiatrist on how constant digital stimulation reshapes the brain's reward system, and how to find balance.

Articles & research

Shorter reads and studies we cite often. Some links may sit behind a paywall.

Across experiments, simply having a phone nearby, even powered off, left people with less available attention.

In a large national sample, heavier screen time was associated with higher rates of anxiety, depression, and suicide-related outcomes.

In Norwegian middle schools with strict phone bans, girls had fewer specialist mental-health visits and students reported less bullying. (Working paper.)

An accessible argument that school-issued devices are crowding out real learning.

How much of the school day adolescents actually spend on their phones.

What school phone policies look like in practice, and how well they are working.

How much teachers see phones disrupting the classroom.

Students using an AI assistant to write essays showed weaker neural engagement. (Preprint, small sample.)

Meta's own internal studies on social media and youth mental health, in plain language, drawn from whistleblower and legal disclosures.

The apps and EdTech used in schools, and how they handle student data privacy.

Podcasts

Conversations worth a commute or a dog walk, the shows and episodes that come up at our gatherings.

Recommendations coming soon. Have a show you keep sharing? Tell us.

Upcoming events

There are wonderful organizations near us hosting talks, screenings, and workshops for families. We share the ones we think are worth your evening; these events are theirs, not ours, and we're glad to point you to them.

Details coming soon. We'll add event listings here as the fall calendar comes together.

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